Men often wear suits or dinner jackets, while women usually opt for cocktail dresses, pantsuits, or evening gowns
Ensure they have professional stylists who know the best plus size wedding dress silhouettes and can make recommendations and give you ideas for modifications, accessories, etc
Those worn in 1870-1890 were very similar to the ones worn in the later period and even today, except that they were more ornate, trimmed with ruffles, lace, and ribbons, and very likely were larger
The label, the egg type, and refrigeration matter more than the creamy texture
I usually opt for heeled boots to ensure warmth, but pumps and mules can also work with the right outfit